Friday, July 23, 2010

Facebook | Pamela Miree Love......How do you know if it's love? An inquiring mind wants to know...lol

Facebook Pamela Miree Love......How do you know if it's love? An inquiring mind wants to know...lol:
THIS WAS MY RESPONSE "It (Love) allows you to be all of who you are and never leaves a deep wound of insecurity and self-doubt about your own intrinsic worth. It doesn't need to lord itself over you to assuage its own insecurities. It doesn't batter you daily about personal faults you are conscious of and processing. It validates your misgivings and emotions-never diminishing where you are at the moment. It doesn't manipulate or guilt you into interpersonal intimacy. It doesn't alienate you from loved ones. It celebrates you and your interests and goals. Because it is not legalistic with its standards and demands, you feel free to give fully and joyfully in return. It doesn't take ownership of your identity because it lacks its own. It asks. It respects your right to own and speak your own 'No.' It can be without you and know that you are true to it. It is never clingy. It can apologize. It grows. It is patient and knows you are worth the wait. It listens in layers and hears with a pure heart. It 'fights fair.' It never calls you names in the midst of a disagreement. It does not 'make lists.' It can make healthy compromises in matters great and small and not feel resentful over it. It is more than infatuation and nothing like obsession. It doesn't idolize you, but it does actually like you.

You want more? I've got more because I accepted less and am paying dearly for it."

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